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Dear friends.

  
When we found out that Abi is completely deaf, and that her hearing that  can not be corrected with a hearing aid, we crashed. We cried in the street with our backpack and did not want to go further. It was unbelievable, impossible: our daughter, who we desired and expected so much, is deaf! We could not believe the words of the doctors, but the results were in our hands, we had to accept it and move on.It was mid-April when we first called for help, so that Abi could hear.Already the next day we started getting money and not a single day passed without people coming to us with tears in their eyes, to help us, to hold our hands, to encourage us. We were helped by our families, friends, acquaintances, church communities, students, businesses, strangers.The necessary amount was gathered in just two months through divine miracle, and with the help of solidary people with golden hearts.Abi was operated in early July, and after a month of waiting, we were full of hope for her recovery when the cochlear implant was activated.
After the first week with the implant, Abi turned if I called her name, she hears the cars leaving , and once she even heard the voice of a child crying in the park. Today, after the second adjustment of the implant, she tries to imitate animals and even some words, she is attentive to sounds, to words and our songs. And so her great adventure has begun in the world of sounds, with small steps.Every two weeks we go back to Szeged, Hungary, where she was operated and where a specialist programmes the implant's volume so until Christmas she will be able to hear almost perfectly when we talk or sing to her. She is now like a few month old baby , slowly but surely, she will learn to hear and speak.Thank you  for your selflessness with which you helped us.
We believe, hope, and ask God that the goodness and love, with which you have helped our daughter, Abi, to return to you.Sincerely, with love and gratitude,
                             
Rózsa family.
            

 Please give a help for Abigel! 
THE OPERATION SHOULD BE 

CARRIED OUT IN JUNE

               My name is Rózsa Etelka, my husband is Rózsa Róbert, we are young people born in Zalau, Salaj county, Romania. Our daughter, Abigél  was born on March 14, 2010, when we first saw her, we were so joyful that it brought tears to our eyes.  She evolved beautifully, and she started making noises and babbling very quickly. When she was seven months old, she started walking with our help, and before she was one, she could walk on her own.
            We thought she would start speaking very quickly, if she made her first sounds so early, but there were no first words. We flicked to this and did not take it too seriously, because I, her  mother was two years old when I started speaking and we , her parents saw it that she responded to sounds or speech in lot of cases, it did not even come to our mind that something could be wrong.
             In November 2011, when she had a strong cold and teething, we noticed that she was not responding to any noise. Then we started seeing doctors. In Cluj Napoca, before Christmas, after a medical examination, as a gift it was revealed that our child hears, there are no problems with her.
           It turned out that she had a strong ear infection, which caused her not to respond to anything. But Abi still wouldn’t start speaking, she was watching our mouths even more when we were talking to her, and she was getting frustrated for not being able to express herself. We went to Debrecen, too. And here we are, after several examinations, with the diagnosis in our hands.
                After her second birthday, we found out about our daughter Abi the final and accurate diagnosis: profound sensori-neural hearing loss.....“Practically she can not hear anything” was the first sentence after the medical examination.
               In this kind of moments, it feels like the world is crashing, our own, personal, pre-designed small world. Our world that we have to replan the way the path of life has brought to us.  For this we would need your help, so that Abi should be able to hear and speak just like her little friends, this would be possible only through great work, perseverance, but not by itself.   
              She needs a   cochlear implant, which is a surgically implanted electronic device that provides a sense of sound to those who are profoundly deaf  or severely hard of hearing; this is the alternative where satisfactory results can not be achieved with a hearing aid.
This miracle works the following way: 
               Here we start a big battle,
  •  a battle against time, because the operation should be carried out as soon as possible. Early implantation makes possible an effective language learning and development of reading skills, and at the same time it allows the child to significantly improve her speech comprehension and speech production as well, so she can learn among children with normal hearing.
  • this is also a battle for money: the price of an implant for one ear is between 20,000-25,000 euro. We have only a small fraction of this amount. 


          The Romanian state would pay an implant, but this would be a long process……she would be put on a waiting list, she would have to wear a hearing aid for six months and when she gets to the top of the list, she would be operated. Acquaintances say (professionals) that this could take up to two years, unfortunately. This would be too late for the first implant…….that is why we try to collect the money.
            Abi is fine at the moment, she pays attention to all our gestures, movements. When we speak to her, she always watches our mouths and she tries to copy the sounds with her mimicry. She makes many signs, self-invented signs, and now we learn a sign a day continuously from the sign language. She learns the signs very quickly, she copies them with her small hands almost perfectly. Thus her frustration started wearing off, she can see and feel that we understand her if she uses the signs. But thus only us, her loving family knows what she wants, her little friends look at her perplexed, and frankly, our heart breaks for her, and wish that she would be operated as soon as possible.

Please help us, thank you in advance for your generosity.
Etelka 0040-742-796-934 ardai.zilah@yahoo.com

We are pleased to answer any questions,

                                                                                 Rózsa Róbert, qualified medical assistant
                                                                                                       and his wife, 
                                                                                 Etelka, currently school speech therapist
Contact:

Your donations are welcome in the following bank accounts:
Róbert 0040-743-459-392 rozsa_robert@yahoo.com 


Banca Transilvania  SWIFT code : BTRLRO22XXX

in EURO: RO85-BTRL-0130-4201-U06796XX

in DOLLARS :RO37-BTRL-0130-2201-U06796XX


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